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Finas maneiras para gente grossa

Por xicosa
15/06/12 17:28

 

Esse Don Draper (Mad Men) fazia a coisa certa, sempre cortês com a amada

Sexta-feira é dia de etiqueta amorosa no blog. Você ali concentrado(a) para a noite reflete, por exemplo, sobre os bons modos de macho.

Você sabe que o cavalheirismo está quase morto. Agoniza. Sente alguma falta? Ou nem?

Não quero julgar se é bom ou ruim. Pode representar, pelo menos simbolicamente, mais um avanço do mulherio, que não carece desse tal código do bom-tom dos homens.

Elas se viram e talvez estes pequenos gestos sejam obsoletos, inúteis, demodês como uma guarânia da Perla.

Sem essa de puxar a cadeira, abrir a porta do carro, sem essa de cumprimentar uma dama como uma dama de fato –e sim com o punho fechado à moda dos manos.

Tenho muitas amigas, e não tão conservadoras assim, que se ressentem dos bons modos masculinos e nutrem uma certa nostalgia da delicadeza perdida. Outras nem tomaram conhecimento de tais sensíveis modos e vivem muito bem sem isso, são moças de emplacamento anos 1980, 90. Lolas independentes futebol clube.

Lembrei agora de um conselho do jornalista e escritor P.J.O’Rourke, no livro “Etiqueta Moderna –finas maneiras para gente grossa”, tradução do Aran, ed. Conrad:

“Quando você vai ao encontro de um homem é perfeitamente aceitável que você deixe claro que trabalha mais duro, é mais bem sucedida e ganha muito mais do que ele. Mas você deve levar em consideração que ele precisa manter algum respeito próprio. Devido a isso, não importa o quanto você ganhe, permita que ele pague todas as contas.”

O que você acha, amigo? Precisa desse gesto para resgatar o papel perdido de provedor? Ou racha na buena, sem maiores angústias testosterônicas?

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