O luxo de morar sozinho e a solidão domingueira
15/04/12 00:02“A única vantagem da solidão é poder entrar no banheiro e deixar a porta aberta.”
Não tinha a menor graça, como atesta a frase do cronista e compositor Antônio Maria (1921-1964),essa moda de morar sozinho.
O que era sinal de abandono e decadência sem elegância, hoje é sinal de status e prêmio à individualidade, como diz reportagem de Nathalia Ziemkieicz, na “Época”.
Somente na cidade de SP, onde a tendência é mais forte, são pelo menos 503,9 mil moradores neste estilo, incluindo este caballero solitário que vos batuca.
Confesso que aprecio –e repare que não se trata de um ermitão convicto. Coisa de quem encarou diversas repúblicas estudantis, apinhados sótãos de pensões da rua das Ninfas (Recife) e uma quina de acasalamentos.
Morar sozinho, para quem já não é mais criança e adquiriu um rosário de manias, é valioso. Tem um momento, porém, que o banzo pega, afinal de contas o planeta melancolia nasceu para todos.
Trato dos domingos, como ensaiamos falar aqui outro dia. Aquele momento que você não tem alguém para o simples ato de coçar o meio das costas, naquele ponto da anatomia em que a mão não alcança.
Você há de fazer a Greta Garbo com sua famosa ordem para o mundo deixá-la no seu refúgio: “I wan to be alone”.
Você há de dizer, bem-resolvido(a), aproveita que é domingo, vai até à feira japonesa da Liberdade e compra uma daquelas mãozinhas coça-costas.
O almoço solitário do domingo, principalmente depois que você se separa, também pega. Ô! Mas aí tem aquele amigo papo-bom que tira de letra.
Ou, como aconselho, você manda a lasanha (semi-pronta) do desprezo no forno e mata inclusive a ansiedade qual um Garfield.
Há quem diga que a pior solidão é quando você adoece e não tem alguém ali para fazer um chá, uma sopinha, ninguém ali para fazer a Ana Neri -a heroína matriarca da enfermagem brasileira.
É pensando nisso que a minha mãe sempre me adverte nos intervalos de solteirice: “Case, meu filho, imagina ter uma dor de madrugada e ninguém por perto?!”
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